- Ozay RinpocheBy Maria Teresa Faaberg.......DEFENDING and/or ALLOWING. When is a measured response just another way of ignoring the shadow elements of our personality? -Anyone?....................
- ANSWERED BY OZAY.......Sorry Maria I did not answer this ...correctly above so I will answer it again as I do not think anyone else will answer it for you. The answer is a simple one when you know this one thing most people are pleasure seekers and seek pleasure at the cost of displeasure, this makes most responses therefore lopsided because most are only seeking pleasure from responses or even from action, if most people did not only seek pleasure in life and took the whole and could see that the pursuit of happiness for instance always brings with it the other polarity that is unhappiness, so because life is lopsided due to this pursuit of pleasure, if one instead pursues the answer to having peace then ignorance gets left behind and the whole thing is seen, as it is not as the pleasure seeker wishes it to be for gratifications, so you see all the time this happens ie you pursue happiness then you ignore that truth of polarities.See More16 minutes ago ·
Ozay Rinpoche in order to have pleasure one must give pleasure also, and it is here hidden and repressed where displeasures occur ie the shadow personality that you mention. For where there is pleasure there will always be displeasure= shadow personality.12 minutes ago ·- Ozay RinpocheThere is one happiness one can pursue, this form of happiness will come from inner peace, to pursue happiness from other things such as people to people, ego to ego, polishing ego etc, pursuit of materiality all of those things when accompl...ished generate momentarily pleasure, here is where one has to learn to control, this again is where shadow elements come in, for as soon as control is lost so is happiness lost, it become unhappiness, and because the true nature of life is CHANGE then it is impossible for this form of happiness to be a permanent feature
Thursday, 11 November 2010
When is a measured response just another way of ignoring the shadow elements of our personality?
EGO BECOME MORE PASCIFIED IN THIS DEBATE
- Maria Teresa Faaberg DEFENDING and/or ALLOWING. When is a measured response just another way of ignoring the shadow elements of our personality? -Anyone?about an hour ago ·
Ozay Rinpoche When there is no pay back, when you become like the Sun, the Sun shines its light and it is warm and it gives life, this can only be come to when the ego is unveiled, and the true identity can be seen and you become that great ocean of life force. That ocean also called God, love enlightenment, it has many names but one meaning.about an hour ago ·
Nargis SørensenI do not hate you. You speak of what you know and what you think you know as do I .
Did I say I was perfect ? All my friends know i'm not and still love me be accept me as I am. Lately I am beginning to be able to too. If I only want to lea...rn from people who pat my back, do you think I would still be here, listening to you ?See Moreabout an hour ago via Facebook Mobile ·- Ozay RinpocheNargis those questions have been answered above, I did not say you hate me there are more answers to that topic. There is nothing I speak of that I 'THINK' I know I either "KNOW" or I do not know, I do not accept any belief into my life, an...d if I accidentally fall into that trap of belief then I will act on it, I am brave enough to say if I do not know then I do not know, but for you or anyone's ego it is unfortunate to speak with me if you wish to consolidate your beliefs, for you will not get any such approval here, if you are wrong and I "KNOW" you are wrong then I will speak just so.See Moreabout an hour ago ·
- Nargis SørensenI am not here to seek approval or to pat your back... Then I would have left a long time ago...
It is ok that you don't agree on being kind to others, I can understand why you give tough love. So agree to disagree ? That just isn't who I cho...se to be. I know my flaws and do speak openly about them. It is up to me to make the changes I wish for an dream of. Just like you have full right to your choices. I respect what you do works for you. I listen to what you say about my defence mechanisms I already am aware of those and my other flaws.
So you only tell me what I already know...
There is a lot I don't know and a lot I will probably never know. That is ok.
I don't always get it right I am still learning :-)See More34 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · - Ozay Rinpoche Love breeds love, ego breeds ego, pretence breeds pretence, that is the truth.32 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche Kindeness? your definition of kindness is to consolidate your ego by consolidating other ego's that is not kindness, it is denial.31 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche You know your flaws, yet through out this discourse you have been fiercily protecting those flaws, you speak for the sake of saying it to make you look good, but you do not speak how it is with you29 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche Yes there are many choices you are you own creation and you are you own creator, those creations are just that, the truth is you are beyond those limitations, yet they have imprisoned the true nature that you are you are much greater than that which you defend, but the only way you can know this is by letting it go, it takes courage, but when you do then you will know instead of believe you are what you chose to be.27 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche If there is a lot you don't know then learn to unknow everything else, if you don't mind my advice.23 minutes ago ·
- Nargis Sørensen Well you never asked you just made a lot of assumptions.
Let me ask you this after your tough love, how many of those who stay keep questioning and how many remain healthy objective ?18 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · - Nargis Sørensen I know I need to unlearn some habits are no longer useful.
Thank you for your time. My time is up. Bye have to go now :-)15 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · · 1 personLoading... - Ozay RinpocheLet me tell you this we go through life creating own identity, the great illusion, we protect it with defence mechanisms as I pointed out to you in your self, if the system you create does not work well, ie defecne mechanisms are not well e...stabablished, then a bad thing happens you fight or flight bodily functions will kicks off these are chemical responses let off into your bilogical system, but because it is unnatural ie ego protection there is no physical fighting or no physical running away those chemicals will do a lot of damage to your health and body, eventually the system weakens as time goes by and you will become exposed to cancers hear disease and the like and your body will die at a younger age than it is meant to. So you see this realiseation is utterly important for humanity in order for it to become an enlightened society, by living longer and coming to be aware of this inner phenomena this all leads to the golden state, it needs to take time. It is an healthy objective because human society needs to from out of this present dark situation, it is a slow process but necessary objective.See More10 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche To unlearn all knowledge brings you to the perfect state....IT IS CALLED ENLIGHTENMENT or GOD REALISATION.7 minutes ago ·
THE EGO BEGINS TO SOFTEN BUT WHAT TRAP NEXT?
- Ozay Rinpoche If you go read my blogg you will see the same kind of love I have shown to Catholics Christians, hindus, atheists and I can tell you that I cover all religions Muslims, and the non religionists, remember we are all worthy of knowing the truth it does not matter what you call yourself, you are not the religion you hold.11 hours ago ·
- Nargis Sørensen I have thought about what you have said and done. I do like buddhism a lot like I also see good qualities in other beliefs and no belief. That gives me deep respect, and I can see and understand why some people chose and dedicate themselves 100% to one of the above.
I do not see my self as religious, more like a philosopher. I try not to label myself I try to keep an open mind to both the outside world and the inside.
I let my self be inspired, not told what to do. I do stop to make my own choices. I am here because I was invited by a friend and because I am open.
I am sorry to see how you have treated some of us. I know that is your way of killing the ego. Don't you know you can do so by being loving, kind, inspireing ?
I do not understand your way, and it made me stubborn and unwilling to be inspired... You blind me...4 hours ago via Facebook Mobile · - Nargis Sørensen I see beliefs and non belief as I see myself, not perfect and with a kind heart... Everything is a whole, where you get to make a lot of choices. My wish is to limit my regrets and live it my way in my spirit, with love and respect for others and for myself... With forgiveness for those who hurt me, you are all my teachers. Thank you for clarifying my choices ♥
I may always have some shadow so I let myself get inspired, loved and illuminated so that the damage can be limited. You may not answer to anyone, I feel responsible for my actions and I try to unlearn my useless habits and make space for those I really need ♥4 hours ago via Facebook Mobile · - Ozay Rinpoche An example of true loving kindness can be seen like the Sun in the sky it gives warmth and light and receives nothing back for what it gives. Today so called loving kindness is a mask of the ego and it lays traps for it gives in order to get some thing back, and if it does not receive what it expects as payment then there is hell let loose. For example payment comes in being recognised for charitable work(Ego identity).....LOOK AT ME WHAT I AM DOING FOR THIS CHARITY DOES THIS NOT SHOW HOW LOVING I AM? If you give them a pat on the back or polish the ego by giving praise, then you will be given a pat on the back for doing like wise. But if you rather speak the truth to them: which is you are only doing this so that you look good in front of other people your ego wants to be praised and all your charitable works are nothing of the kind, but rather about how you want people to praise you. (That is payment) then your loving charitable person becomes a wounded bear and want to make war with you, they want to destroy your ego, they want to hurt your ego because their egos have been hurt, many such people are inside of organisations such as Buddhism and the other religious organisations and rather than becoming holier the become more evil, your defence mechanisms reveals all of this. In true charity one gives and the left hand does not know what the right hand is doing. What we have today is a situation where if you are practising any form of spiritual evolution and are amoung a bunch of people like this which is every where you go, then it is like living among a bunch of snakes ready to bite you with poisonousness venom, but anyone who has attained enlightenment will be seen as a rebel and hated for speaking truth15 minutes ago ·
- Ozay Rinpoche As soon as you say 'I" you are already limiting yourself and lieing to yourself, and that is the trap of the ego, you are nothing you 'THINK' you are, that is a truth you must see, for you are a pretender and it is creating that which is unreal and it is this creation which is the cause of such hate and resentment, because when this creation is treated outside of the moralities you have given it then this will be excuse for all kind of evil misdemeanour's You only say you are not perfect because it is seen as being arrogant to say otherwise so you conform, and your payment is reward for being such a nice person, but creating this good person means you have created evil persona's, look at you defence mechanisms that you have been using throughout this discourse, protecting that creation look at all the evil tactics it created even now this lower key is just another tactic of your defence of your identity see how you justify it in the above post, what you should be doing is seeing this evil in yourself and embracing it as I have done, when you can see this evil in yourself it pinpoints your awareness at a third stand point, that is you will see what conflict is being caused by its pretence to be good, that third stand point will act like alchemy and create a new energy an energy that can find peace because it recognises good and evil need each other in order to create themselves, the third stand point lives in peace because it sees the drama, it sees the play and therefore has the energy to neutralise such dramas, seeing your own evil allows you to have compassion for all others even the criminals because you accept that in yourself and embrace it, only seeing yourself as good denies that part of yourself and it makes you blind to much of the subconcious reasons of why you act as you do, and it is this that is the cause of conflict, for outside yourself there is good and bad and also what is out is in good and bad duality, hence your behaviour has been as it has been, there is better for you.
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