Dealing with the fear of the dieing

You need to pay attention to all of what I say in this mail concerning myself and Biancas situation as it is all relevant for "YOU" to help those people you work with, so stay focused as much as you can here.

OK I have thought about this questions you asked, to start with I did not feel I should answer it immediately because something in me was incorrect to answer, then I thought I should go and speak tp Bianca about it, the reason is I did not feel pure enough to answer it in the correct way, the reason I am not pure enough is this:

We have had the internet connection since Febuary, before this Bianca and myself were getting many days living in bliss due to our inner work we have both done together and still do.

I became active on the net because I wanted to serve by discussion and reasoning, opening possibilities for others to live better lives without suffering, but always there will be play of the ego in human relations. it is this that has slowly depurified me, but luckily enough Bianca has chosen only to serve by being creative with her video making and once in awhile she will take part in discussion, but very limited compared to what I am doing, therefore her purity is more clear than mine is at present, luckily enough my self awareness is still intact, if this starts to fade then I will normally go silent on the net for awhile until I return to a better level of purity, ego is a cancer that grows when you are among too many people.

I spoke with Bianca earlier and mentioned the situation you are in with your work and the people you are helping to deal with death, and this is what came through her, she gets used as a vessel when she is this pure state which is the same within you you and me:

She said tell Annette that she herself can only be the one to help, by herself becoming an instrument, by being a vessel, an empty vessel, meaning without mind, beyond mind.

That is you have to be pure yourself, it would be no good rehearsing anything anyone says to you, every person who is standing before death will be different, no one thing that is said to one situation is right for another, therefore you have to become empty. This can be actived by practice listening meditation, be calm, be relaxed be empty but alert and listen without thinking while the other speaks. You will reach the empty space within you, which we all have and there lies all wisdom for any given situation. You will experience then as if you are used as a vessel for this wisdom for each individual situation you come across, to shine a light to that person and what they need at that particular time to make their transcession as easy as possible. Each different day, situation, person will change, so you cannot be have senarios to use in all situation, you would only give ideas from the mind mixed with feelings from the feeling centre, making you often out of touch with what is needed.

Therefore this means you have to make yourself right, balanced, by practising emptiness relaxation and stillness this will make you a medium between this side and the other side and your intuition will work when it is needed, when you are pure you will be in touch with your heart centre, if you are too much in mind you will not be helpful as you could otherwise.

Depending on where the dying person stands in their understanding there are truths you can give, such as; "Be present, you are here alive here in this moment as you have always been now you have a chance to stay here and enjoy this moment this is beautiful here, don't go anywhere else in your mind except where you really are here, there was never a past or a future only your mind puts you in the future or the past, in the past you were not given this great opportunity and now you have it, nothing is really different, life has always been a rope either long or short you never knew then as you do not know now when that moment is, you knew the rope was either short or long, and it is still the same, and tonight you will sleep what is there to fear when you sleep sleep is beautiful it allows you to regenerate your worn out body"

This last paragraph will not be suitable for everyone, it may not be suitable for many, and that is why, you cannot, say to one concentrate on your breath, or to concentrate on this very moment, or concentrate on relaxing yourself, or taking them on a pleasurable trip in their mind by using suggestion, of course it is good for you to learn all those methods so that your intuition will let you know which is best in any situation, if you are stuck with anyone we can chat about it and maybe help you in some way but we will help you with "YOU" to become the instrument or vessel, and my story of becoming impure due to activities on the internet also suggests what you have to do or whatch out for that. As I have observed you use yourself well on the net and few understand what I put over as you do, so this is telling how developed you already are, you almost got lost for awhile back there and that is why I felt I needed to let you know you were on the right track, that is what I mean about the net people and ego=cancer.

By becoming pure yourself, your intuition will tell you what is needed at any given situation, Some people call this being guided by God or any other form depending on their culture or religion etc. Therefore to become able to see, to know, to become the inner wisdom, you have to purify yourself, meaning becoming master over mind, and everything will come to you when you ask, there are methods of prayer you can also use that will give you answers to situations that require them, I can give you that method too if you think you need it, just ask.

The book is being written, but I am not happy with it yet, thankyou for the encouragement.

I can work together I am more than willing to help you, you are a good cause that is why I am here in the first place.

Take lots of care

love

Ozay and Bianca